Twisted choices are a manifestation of deep ,unresolved sorrow. These are decisions that defy logic and self preservation yet it makes sense to a person thus causing pain, loss,betrayal and despair. An irrational decision is not merely an isolated step but can be a continuous process,a spiralling path. Each decision built upon the past becomes entangled in a cycle that is difficult to break. Pain does not influence choices alone it can become intertwined with a person’s identity making one believe that they are inherently flawed, unlovable or doomed to suffer and cannot envision a different reality.
Twisted decisions are not simply decisions gone wrong, they are visible scars of deep rooted,unhealed pain. Breaking free from this process requires more than just willpower. It needs love and the willingness to share the burden of pain. Expressing one’s feelings and having them acknowledged by someone can be absolutely cathartic. The empathy and understanding received can remind a person that that they are still valued and loved . It creates a safe space where one can be vulnerable,allowing them to process the pain and move forward with a renewed sense of self worth and appreciation.

With love
Kavita